How to Stop Spiraling After Reading the News
To stop spiraling after reading distressing news, resist the urge to force the thought away — trying tends to backfire. Instead, name the specific fear in one sentence, rate how strong it feels out of 10, then add a short round of bilateral stimulation, like the butterfly hug, before it runs forward into worse “what ifs.”
You read one headline over coffee, and ten minutes later you’re three steps past it: your job, your health, the people you love, the whole shape of the world. The story ended. Your body hasn’t caught up yet.
Why does one headline turn into a spiral of “what ifs”?
You’re not overreacting, and you’re not the only one this happens to. In a December 2025 survey of more than 3,500 U.S. adults, the Pew Research Center found 52% say they feel worn out by the amount of news there is. Six in ten have already cut back how much they take in. If one story can still leave you keyed up and running through worst cases, that’s an ordinary reaction, not a personal failing.
Part of what keeps a story circling is the shape of the thoughts themselves. A 2012 study in the Journal of Experimental Psychopathology showed 60 people a distressing film. Some then spent five minutes a day asking “why” and “what if” questions about it, or about an unrelated worry, over the following week. Both groups ended up with more intrusive memories of the film than the group given no such task. Running “what if” questions about a headline, even briefly, is exactly the kind of thinking that helps it lodge instead of fade. It’s the same escalating loop behind any thought spiral; a headline just supplies the first domino.
Why doesn’t telling yourself to stop thinking about it work?
Trying to force the thought out usually backfires. Daniel Wegner’s original 1987 experiment asking people not to think of a white bear found exactly that: push a thought away, and it tends to bounce back stronger once you stop pushing, not disappear for good. Willing the headline out of your head fights your own mind’s wiring. What works better is giving your attention something else to hold, instead of a fight to win.
How do you stop the spiral right now?
That’s where bilateral stimulation (BLS), the rhythmic left-right technique at the center of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), can help. Instead of arguing with the thought, you give your attention a steady rhythm to hold instead:
- Name the one thing. Not “the news” broadly, the specific fear your mind jumped to. Precision is what makes the rest work.
- Rate it. On a 0–10 scale, how strong does that fear feel right now?
- Let it be present, briefly. Just enough to feel it, not a full replay of the story.
- Add bilateral stimulation. Move your eyes slowly left and right for 20 to 30 seconds, or try the butterfly hug: cross your arms and tap your shoulders left-right, slowly.
- Pause and breathe. Notice anything that shifted, even slightly.
- Repeat for 3 to 5 rounds, checking your number between each one.
This fits a doom-spiral especially well because so much of it points forward, not backward. A 2011 study in the Journal of Anxiety Disorders found eye movements made people’s recurring feared-future images, what researchers call “flashforwards,” less vivid, with a smaller easing in how emotionally loud they felt. Picturing your job disappearing or a worst case unfolding is the same kind of image; the technique doesn’t need it to have already happened to help.
Keeping your own steady rhythm while a headline is still fresh is one more task than you need in that moment. EmEase, a self-guided EMDR app, can run the same left-right technique for you, hands-free, through a moving on-screen target or alternating tones, in the web app, with a 7-day free trial.
When does this need more than a quick technique?
This routine is built for an ordinary spike: sharp, uncomfortable, and past within minutes once you interrupt it. Reach for more support if the spiral shows up most days no matter what’s in the news, if it’s tangled up with a sense of hopelessness, or if it’s costing you sleep, focus, or time with people you care about. A therapist trained in CBT or EMDR can work with the pattern underneath, not just today’s headline.
If it’s the daily habit of checking that’s hard to put down, not just the spiral after, staying informed without drowning covers the boundaries side of this. If what’s spiraling is personal news, not a headline, this guide to stopping a spiral after bad news is shaped for that instead. For the checking habit itself, breaking the doomscrolling pull picks up where this leaves off, and if racing thoughts show up well outside the news too, our fuller guide to racing thoughts and overthinking goes deeper.
One headline doesn’t have to set the tone for your whole afternoon. Interrupting it once, on purpose, is real practice, and it counts.
Frequently asked questions
Why does one bad headline spiral into worrying about everything?
Your mind holds a specific fear like an open question and keeps running it forward: this could happen, and then this. A 2012 study found that even briefly asking "what if" questions about something distressing left people with more intrusive memories of it a week later than doing nothing at all with the thought.
Is it bad to keep replaying a disturbing story in my head?
It doesn't help the way it feels like it should. Research on rumination after distressing exposure found that circling the same "why" and "what if" questions left a story more stuck a week later, not more resolved. Interrupting the loop, rather than replaying it, is what actually helps it fade.
Why doesn't telling myself to stop thinking about it work?
Trying to force a thought away tends to backfire; it's called the rebound effect. Daniel Wegner's original 1987 "white bear" experiment found that pushing an unwanted thought out of mind makes it bounce back stronger once you stop trying, rather than disappearing for good.
What's the fastest way to calm down right after reading upsetting news?
Name the specific fear in one sentence instead of "the news" in general. Rate how strong it feels out of 10. Then do a short round of bilateral stimulation, like the butterfly hug: cross your arms and tap left-right slowly for 30 to 60 seconds. Repeat for a few rounds, checking your number each time.
Does bilateral stimulation actually help, or is it just distraction?
There's a specific reason it fits a forward-spinning fear well. A 2011 study found eye movements made people's recurring feared-future images less vivid, with a smaller easing in emotional intensity. A doom-spiral runs on the same kind of imagined-future image, so the mechanism fits, even though it won't tell you what's actually going to happen.
When should I get professional support for this?
Consider a licensed therapist if the spiral shows up most days no matter what's in the news, if it's tangled up with a sense of hopelessness, or if it's costing you sleep, focus, or time with people you care about. A therapist can work with the pattern underneath, not just today's headline.
Sources
- Americans' Complicated Relationship With News — Pew Research Center (2026)
- The Effect of Rumination on Intrusive Images and Mood: An Experimental Investigation Using the Trauma Film Paradigm — Journal of Experimental Psychopathology (Ball & Brewin) (2012)
- Reducing vividness and emotional intensity of recurrent 'flashforwards' by taxing working memory: An analogue study — Journal of Anxiety Disorders (2011)
- The EMDR Therapy Butterfly Hug Method for Self-Administered Bilateral Stimulation — Iberoamerican Journal of Psychotraumatology and Dissociation, via EMDR International Association (2021)